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The key is that every person is different, and you should take the widow/widower’s word that she/he is ready to date.” There is no specific time range that works for everyone.
Some people may be ready after 6 months, while others may feel ready after 5 years.
Also, if the person was terminally ill and that illness took a long time to run it’s course, the widowed person may have done a lot of grieving prior to the actual occurrence of death and might be ready to date earlier than ‘the experts’ predict.
For me, it was 18 months before I considered dating again.
If you do decide to skip the friendship process and choose the second way, don't over do it or else you will look like a pervert or a very desperate person, which will hurt your image.
Don't rush into it and ask them out or else you will corner them and they won't have a time to think, and if they don't like you as much and consider you as just another person, they most likely will say no.
” Realize that at some points the widowed person might need space, and don’t take that personally.
No one else can tell you what you are feeling, so only by being in touch with your own emotions can you know if you’re ready.
Everyone mourns differently, so widows/widowers must be careful not to let other people dictate the speed of their recovery.”“Too many variables to say what is right for anyone the old year thing is probably wise as a minimum. I didn’t quite make the 1 year wait to date thing…and I made a mess, I think I will use 5 years to remarry as a minimum.“This is variable, and having been married to a widower, been widowed and later marrying another widower as well as encountering several men on the widow/widower board, I have noticed that men seem to be ready earlier than women.
If the person truly is ready to begin again with someone new they will make room for you in their heart.
How can I help a widow/widower get through their pain and feelings of loss?